Hi ya all,

I'm going to talk about another kind of Pain!!!!!  We had 2 -- 31-year-olds who got out on their own & married, but then committed suicide last week.   I do not know what the reason for the guy was, but to me that's a very selfish act, that leaves the family especially the parents & spouse & children all in pain & nowhere to direct that pain, but their guilt. 

The other girl was going through a nasty divorce & had 3 little boys, whom their father was trying to get away from mom.  So mom took a gun & killed herself.  Something the boys will never forget!!!!  But let me say it was not the little boys fault.!!! but a bad memory for them.  

So teach your children growing up there will always be troubles in life & no one is exempt from trouble, so expect problems. But God can help you cope with trouble &( we must learn to cope with our problems ). He can take away your fears, if you ask him -he will not force his way on a person but must be invited into your heart  

Both of the kids had good parents.  We know!!!!!  They are friends of ours, so I know kids had a sheltered life & were protected.   Yes, even friends feel the pain  of suicide!!!!!